Conditions
Urinary Incontinence
Urinary incontinence is passing urine when you do not mean to because of partial or total loss of control of the bladder. It is estimated that 3-6 million people in the UK have some degree of incontinence, which becomes more common with age, but does not only affect older people. It’s twice as common in women as men and is more common in women after giving birth. Incontinence means that either the muscles, or the nerve supply, are not working properly to control your bladder. The two main types of urinary incontinence are: stress incontinence (a small amount of urine leaks out during physical activity), and urge incontinence (the bladder empties completely). However, there are a number of treatments available. Pelvic floor exercises (or Kegel exercises) can be performed to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, or patients can be referred for electric stimulation of the pelvic floor muscles to increase their strength. There are also a variety of surgical procedures available.
If you’re suffering from continence problems then you can watch a special webchat with Mr Andrew Clarke on Thursday 10th December at 2pm (GMT). Go to www.webchats.tv to submit your questions ahead of the live chat.
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My aunty suffers with daytime incontinence when ever she is going out or work if she drink a tea before she gone out will need 3 times to go toilet she is realy determind to get help? thankz
I'm a 21 year old woman and I need to wee all the time. I have to go to the toilet about once every half hour when I'm awake. If I go to the toilet just before I leave a building, I will need it again just after walking down the road. I have to stop to wee around four times during sex. I avoid drinking anything when there isn't a loo around, but that doesn't seem to help much. It never used to be like this, but over the past three years it has got worse. I told my GP about it, but she said that I will just have to live with it. I am fed up of being in constant discomfort and always being worried about where the next loo will be.
My 14year old daughter went to see her doctor to day with similar problems to you. After the doctor sent away a urine sample to check for infection, it came back normal! My daughter now has been refered to the hospital to see what is going on. Its early days so we don't have any results back. The doctor did say that at such a young age this should not be happening to her! I think you should go back to your doctor and get a hospital referal or even more answers and help. Tell the doctor how it makes you feel and how its ruining you life! Your intitalled to any help you can get!
my sister is 42 an wets herself, more than 8 times a day, she was refured to pysio, an when that didnt work she was told by her gp, it was her age, she is always doing pelvic floor exercise,an has had 3 children, she said her partner has mentioned that he can smell her, is there any other medical solution that you can help her with
I am 14,I have ibs but this tends to happen when I laugh, are there any exercise or ways to control your bladder?
Im a 15 year old female and have incontinence. i have talked to my doctor and got a urine sample taken which came back normal but i have heard nothing since then. i don't know what to do. It controls my life, i can't jump anout without going to the toilet every 5 minutes and trampolines are out of the question! Help!
i am 17 and have had what i think is stress incontinence for a few years. it is highly embarrasing and i dont feel like i can have fun with my friends anymore. what can i do
i had my appendix taken out by keyloge and i went in retention . then i had a catherzation becase my bladder stoped working in may . i had ceptema ,coilie, acute Pyelonephritis of kidneys all at once and i have had acute Pyelonephritis 8 times and i had high temputer . now i have no feeling in my spine,bladder,bowel,legs,feet . if your bladder is ok there should taken cather out and did u have test done for bladder and wat did test say . mine said that my bladder is none estet that means doesnt work at all frm kelly
Im 47, have had stress incontinence (sneezing, coughing etc)for approx 6 months, not had an explanation for a cause but my own online research points to a few possibles, childbirth, 2 episiotomies, pre-menopausal, rectal surgery. Was referred around December time. Saw consultant and a physio, offered pelvic floor exercises which havent really helped, physio said on examination I had strong muscles anyway,seeing follow-up physio very soon so hope for something to be done. Also have bad bowel problems resulting in having to wear the biggest and longest panty liners you can buy at all times or its a disaster! Consultant did mention possible surgery, does this help if anyone has had it, and does it cause any complications?
hi im 19 i had a baby 3 months ago and ever since i have been going to the toilet like every 10 mins it is a really frustrating. i did my pelvic floor exercises like the midwife told me to and i dont know what to do. when i sneeze, cough or dance i sometimes leek and i hate it as its really embarrasing and it gets me down what can i do? x
i am 18 years old, i have been having stomach pains for four years now since i started my periods it sometimes move all over my stomach but mainly down towards my lower stomach pain below my belly button but febuary this year i was admitted to hospital with lower stomach pain after two days of being in hospital the nurse asked me to do a urine sample but i couldnt pass any urine and they ended up catheterising me and i was in hospital for 5 weeks and i have had the catheter in and out now ever since that day i some times do for 16 hours without passing urine and i have been having irragular periods. please could you advise me on what to do.
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