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Consultation: Urinary Incontinence

Dr Jessen meets a woman whose problem bladder is ruling her life, but luckily there’s a solution, though not for the faint hearted.

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i am 32 year olf woman, after a c section har urinary retention and was unabe to empty my bladder and after 7 years still have to have a suprabuic catheter which in turn has meant constant unrine and bladder infection what are my optons,





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hi there retention sometimes happens after operations or pregnancy. but usually it doesnt last that long. have you been reffered to a gyne or bladder specialist? im 21 and i did have an indwelling for retention but then i learnt how to self catheterise. is this an option for you? its easy to learn but can be painful at first.best of luck let us no how you get on.

Wow! I had no idea that this problem was so wide spread! I'm 30 and i can remember back into my early teens problems I had with my bladder. I always went to the loo before going on trampolines because I found out I'd completely wet myself, but even when I had been to the loo it happened anyway much to my dismay. I also remember walking home from school having a laugh and joke with some friends and again completely wetting myself but fortunately ii was wearing a long skirt so wasn't that noticeable to my friends! I would always wet myself whenever my father repremanded me for being naughty too which was embarrassing. I still get stress incontinence now, but I didn't realise you could do something about it until now! Very helpful stuff, think I'll be paying a visit to my gp in the near future :)





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I have a 6 year old boy who has always had an overactive bladder. I have seem specialists that have put him on oxybutnin but this hardly does very much.I know people say he may grow out of it but it is really affecting his life he comes home wet every day from school not wanting to change himself incase someone sees him , he refuses to drink much during the day as he is scared he will have more accidents. His teachers dont really understand and say he is starting to smell and dont support him very much. If he needs to go he has only minutes to get there and even then leakage will have occurred.He wont stay at friends houses or go on day events due to embarrassment. He has also in the last week started soiling himself which we are trying to find out if this is linked to incontinence or not.He is a lively intelligent boy who asks me all the time why if his bladder is not working properly why can't the doctors fix it. Please help if any suggestions as I have run out of answers.





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Hi, My wife is a Continent Nurse withe the NHS and as such can be seen through an appointment via you GP. Often she says that the 'pelvic floor muscles' (which can be tested by physical examination) arent strong enough to stop incontinence, one resolution to incontinence. In addition there are other scans and tests that can be carried out, and also pads, but dont rely upon products before getting seen. Continence nurses and other professionals can sort out many of the issues I have sen on the TV, dont suffer in silence, see your GP and push to see a 'Continence Nurse' and start living your life without worry and looking for the toilet. All the best, Just trying to help!





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hello in 20 years old and as long as i can rember i had trouble with my bladder i wet the bed until the age of 13.i had two children close together and my bladder has worsened.ive bin to my gp and they gave me exsasis to do but that dosent seem to help im getting really embaressed no because theres not always warning that i need the tolit and i can wet myself which i shouldent be doing at my age please help me





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im 39 and for the last 10 years i have had a problems with hold my urine in time to get to the toilt. and also sometime inconient with my bowel movement . when im out . alway need to know were the toilets are first . before i go any were. wot can i do obout this issue please . i will be greatful 4 any help. many thanx





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I`ve read alot about this problem!!!!!!!!!!!!it is quite commen it seems, but when it`s happening to you..ignorance kicks in.. i`m coming up 44 and have had this on going problem!procedure, enduring my life for 10years now..1st started with this problem when i went through a divorce..started with leakage when coughing/sneezing/excercise ect..I had a colpo-suspension operation which i hoped would correct,sadly not 4long..went thru enduring few years of waiting for appointments and sent away trial course of tablets, then botox numerious times,, and finally nerve stimulation.it worked remarkably just waiting 4 implsnt fingers crossed xxxxxxx





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I'm 16 and had this about a year to half a year, suffering from it daily, occasionally to where I can't hold it in any longer. Something I have recently found works is pelvic exercises - especially kegel exercises. only thing is you have to do 50+ daily. The more you do the more effective it is, but it's worth it...





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Im 49 years of age ive had my bladder problem for so many years. I underwent a hysterectomy because of other problems, also colposuspension (bladder operation) which stopped the leaking, but didnt stop the bladder urge, so im still on Buscopan and Detrusitol, medication helped a bit, Ive had really bad abdominal pain, which was caused by adhesions, so ended up having an operation for that in March 09. pain is so bad got worse since operation really cant cope at times dont seem to be getting anywhere





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Hi i m 36 years old and have had this problem over 4 years.I was on pills but nothing helps.I have been to Urology for dynamic studies but still no finall answer.I m desperate to have just even a little repair because the bladder problem is running my life.For month ego i was deppressed coz was worse,i never seen in my life.Is it anybody can explain to me how the botox works?Waiting to hear from you.





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